It’s a skill if you can persuade anyone, I mean anyone, to give you money. Think of how this skill could change your life. You might not think about it much, but every day, someone is trying to persuade you to do something. It could be a person on TV selling gold, or your friends asking you to join them at the movies. It might even be a coworker who wants you to take their shift. When you learn how to convince and persuade anyone, you can make many parts of your life better. So, in this post, I will teach you how to convince someone to give you money.
And if you think your skills in persuasion need to get better, get ready to learn some really effective yet simple psychological tricks to convince anyone.
Why do you need to learn how to make someone give you money or something?
Every single day of our lives, we are always selling something. Everybody is selling something to someone every moment. Consider this example;
My little boy one sunny day saw a Nike shoe he loved so much while we were walking past the shoe shop. He stopped and admired the shoe for a while; after a few moments of staring at the shoe, I beckoned to him to get moving – to catch up with our train.
The next day he comes into the sitting room and asks me, “What would I do so that you can buy me that shoe?” I felt startled for a while because I never imagined him coming up with such an intelligent question. I didn’t want to be a wicked father who would outrightly say no to my son’s request. So I gave him a task to accomplish – which he did and claimed his Nike shoe a few days later.
I sat down and pondered the strategy he used to get that money out of my pocket. I started implementing it step by step, and the result has been fantastic. I will show you why you need to convince someone to give you money without sweating so hard.
- You will become almost invincible.
- They will respect you for knowing how to ask
- The fellow might end up employing your services
- You can get whatever you want – anywhere and anytime.
When you carry out this “trick” properly, people will be marveled at how you were able to get their money off them without any form of resistance.
So how do you get people to send you money with little effort?
Trying to convince someone to give you money is just like trying to make people buy your products. These are now the steps to gently persuade someone to provide you with money without sweating so hard. I hope you utilize it properly – I mean, legally.
Find Someone to Ask for Money
Once you can find the right target, you have done the most challenging part of the job. Just as Robert Green said, “Everything depends on the target….”
The steps to find the right target should come from what you want to achieve and what you intend to give in return. Just know your target in and out, and then watch the magic that follows suit. But make sure to avoid people with stingy attributes.
Your target should have the following if you want to get money from them;
- Financial stability
- Wants
- Easily approachable
Use the Psychology of Persuasion
Every day, powerful politicians, salespeople, and even con artists use the psychology of persuasion. Studies have found that 95% of our decisions are made subconsciously. The aim is to subtly influence the subconscious mind. A great method for this is called mirroring.
Often, the person you’re mirroring won’t even realize you’re doing it. Research indicates that we tend to like people who copy our body language, and this happens without us knowing. If you mirror someone’s posture, gestures, and language, you can be more persuasive. They won’t know you’re doing it. For instance, if someone stands like Superman, with hands on their sides, just copy that posture and their hand movements. Mirroring is a strong persuasion tool, but many people don’t know about it.
Introduce Flattery to convince someone to give you money
Another simple yet effective trick is flattery. Think about a time when you worked hard on your appearance and someone complimented you. Flattery is a very effective persuasion tool. If done correctly, it greatly increases your chances of persuading someone. I remember once, after years of weightlifting, a nurse complimented my biceps while I was in the hospital. That compliment made me like her more than any other nurse I’ve met. Combining flattery with other psychological techniques can make you more persuasive. But be careful, as insincere flattery can backfire, making people more resistant to what you’re saying. Also, be cautious with flattery around people with low self-esteem, as your compliment might conflict with how they see themselves.
Use the idea of reciprocity
Basically, people often feel like they should return favors. For instance, I have an email list for my website where I promote products from other influencers. These influencers see the sales I generate for them. So, later, if I need a favor, they’re more inclined to give me money. Let’s make this simpler. Imagine you’re a car salesman. If you give a small favor, like offering a free bottle of water to a customer, it sets up this feeling in them to do something in return. This makes it easier to convince someone to give you money.
There’s also this super simple trick to convince someone to give you money, and it’s so easy you might be surprised you haven’t used it. It’s called the nod trick. When you’re talking to someone, just nod your head up and down. This gets the other person to start nodding too. And something about nodding their head up and down makes them more likely to agree with what you’re saying.
Ask for it
This is the final step and shouldn’t be complex; all you need to do is ask. Who would object to giving you money? After all, they already collected from you. To carry this out successfully, there are certain factors around the person you want to convince to give you money to consider;
Mood
Make sure the person is in a joyous mood before you pop the request. You wouldn’t want to convince someone to give you money when they are angry. I bet you already know what their response would be like. I suggest you even get the person a beer to feel happy – just before you persuade them to give you something.
Environment
How conducive is the environment? Imagine asking for trying to convince someone to give you money when the person is stuck in traffic. It just doesn’t make sense. You should monitor your client until he is in a good mood in a conducive environment before persuading them to give you money.
Ask Jokingly – but be firm.
Please don’t make it look like they owe you a favour; ask deceptively but be firm. Example;
“I am so broke right now and need help.”
Make sure they hear you; then you pause and look them right in the eyes; remember that whoever speaks first after this loses the game.
You wait! The longer you delay after dropping the initial statement they heard, the more comfortable they would be. The secret behind convincing someone to give you money is to make sure they think about it.
Once they speak first and open up a discussion about the issue, that would be the right time to ask them for whatever you want finally.
Use Priming to Get Money from Someone
Priming is a really clever way to persuade or convince someone to give you money, and it works without them even realizing it. Back in 1999, there was this interesting study about how priming can affect what people buy. They played German and French music in a place where they sold wine for two weeks. What they found was pretty cool: on days when French music was played, more French wine was sold, and on days with German music, more German wine was sold.
The music was secretly influencing the customers’ choices. The best part? When these customers were asked about it in a survey, they had no idea that the music was affecting their wine choices. Priming is all about using one thing to subtly influence someone’s reaction to something else. A simple way to use this trick in everyday life is by changing the environment around you. For example, if you need to ask your parents for a loan, pick a place that makes them feel calm and open-minded. This setting will subtly make them more likely to say yes to your request.
Exert Some Authority
Finally, here is a mind trick you can use to persuade anyone—confidence. This method is often seen in sales. People naturally want to follow those they trust. When you are trying to convince someone, act with authority, even if you’re not. For instance, if you’re asking your parents for money for a car you’ve been dreaming of, you should talk with confidence and act like you’re an expert on cars and their prices.
Your parents might not know much about the car or if it’s a good deal, but if you sound like you know it all, it’ll be easier to get them to lend you the money.
Don’t go just yet because I have made a video for you, and just you. You might want to feed your eyes and ears on this masterpiece.
Conclusion
These tips to convince someone to give you money have been made quite simply in this post. But you should know that other things might work against you, and your body language is certainly one of them. Meanwhile, you can use this technique to pitch insurance sales to prospects.
Being able to persuade and convince people is a really valuable skill, because everything in life revolves around how we interact and connect with others. I suggest you read other corresponding articles on this blog to get more insight into making money the easy way. You can also subscribe to my posts and receive them directly in your mailbox.
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